Chapter 341 Military Outsourcing (11)
Chen Fei's gossip has indeed arisen because he is very curious about these things. Men have always had a thought of a palace since ancient times, and what follows is management issues. It is absolutely very important to make women like them get along well and be as close as sisters. They can even help each other, so that they can be considered a family. Unfortunately, most men cannot do it, even the emperors in the palace cannot do this.
Chen Fei originally lived in later generations and had no experience in managing multiple women. If he had such experience in later generations, it would be troublesome and would definitely be infamous. So Chen Fei knew nothing about this kind of thing, so he also planned to listen to how the Cui family managed these women. This must be learned. If he didn't learn it, he would inevitably face the result of a fire in his backyard. Chen Fei believed that there would be more and more women in the future, and if he didn't manage it well, there would be problems.
"In fact, it is very simple to manage wives and concubines in our Cui family, which is just treating them equally. Except for the wife of our Cui family, the other concubines are of the same level. Regardless of whether the man favors this concubine, if he wants to give one of the concubines, he will treat them equally if he wants to buy gifts, food, clothing, and housing. This ensures that all concubines’ living treatment is the same, so that they can ensure that they have no objection. Of course, the treatment of the wife is definitely the best, and the son is the legitimate son and has the right to inherit." Cui Xiuxiu said.
After hearing this, Chen Fei seemed to be the same as Chen Fei's laws in later generations. Although the men there could marry four wives, it stipulated that each wife would require the same treatment and treat each wife fairly. In Arabia, men bought a luxury car for one wife and also bought the same luxury car for the other three wives. The other things are the same, so that they can all enjoy the same treatment. The Cui family's method has some similarities with the Arabs, which can avoid fighting caused by different treatments in life.
If it is like in an ancient palace, the kind of deliberate division of concubines into different levels and then different levels are given different treatments, it is first of all a source of struggle. Because different levels of treatment will make the concubines fight for vanity and better treatment, which will intensify the restlessness of their backyard. The Cui family's method ensures that everyone's treatment is the same, so they don't need to fight. Their treatment is the same, so no one needs to look at their faces, and no one is much worse than anyone.
"Next. Do you know if someone falls in love with other women's things, do you know how they deal with it?" Choi Soo-soo asked.
"How to deal with it?" Chen Fei asked. He had no experience in this kind of thing, so it was understandable to take the initiative to learn it.
Choi Soo-soo continued: "If there is anything that these women like each other, they must trade each other and they are strictly forbidden to give each other."
Chen Fei frowned because this is too "unkind". In fact, it is necessary for the family to help each other, and as women of the same man, they should be "sisters". It is also appropriate to give something to each other and communicate feelings. However, the Cui family's family rules clearly state that they cannot give each other, and even strictly prohibit these rules of giving each other. Is this a little bit pushing everyone's relationship far?
"It's all a family. Why bother?" Chen Fei sighed and said.
Cui Xiuxiu immediately retorted: "Who is a family? Maybe a family is a family between men and any of them. However, these women cannot be said to be a family. The so-called family is because they are women of the same man, so they become so-called family. But do you think they will be a family? They were going to share the same man with many women. That is equivalent to dividing their most important things. What do you think will their relationship be? Even if they are not enemies, they will definitely not be friends."
"The ancients said that brothers settle accounts clearly, but this so-called 'sister' is actually enemies in its bones. It is almost impossible to make them as close as a family. So the so-called gifts and exchanges of feelings for each other. Although this seems a good thing, it often means that they owe each other favors. Once they owe favors, it depends on the faces. For a long time, the final result will be that the resentment will become deeper and deeper, and then it will explode. So the Cui family has summarized it. They cannot expect them to be as close as sisters, but they will definitely not make them make a fuss. Let no one look at anyone's faces, and no one owe any favors. This is the main reason to ensure that they can not make a fuss."
After hearing this, Chen Fei felt a little moved. This is actually just a system to steward. As for making these women close to each other, it is all false and unlikely. In fact, they are all love rivals, and making love rivals close to each other is simply fantasy. They are actually strangers, but they are just forced into a family by a man, but in fact they have no family relationship. If they give something to each other, they will eventually owe favors. The debt may be better.
, it is too difficult to repay the debt of favors. Once they owe each other favors, it will make the relationship between these women complicated, and a lot of family politics will break out. This will also cause backyard disagreement, and men will suffer. Therefore, they are strictly forbidden to give gifts to each other, in fact, they want to simplify their relationship. In the end, although they cannot be as close as sisters, they will at least not fight each other. This may be the most stable management method to prevent them from making trouble for some things.
"That's why I don't want to accept the gift from Miss Wu. I don't want to have anything to do with her, nor do I want to owe her favors. We just don't have any relationship. In this way, I don't have to look at her face, and she doesn't have to deliberately please me, so that everyone can be a stranger. In this way, I can't have any fights with her. As long as you can treat us equally, there will be nothing to fight." (To be continued, please search for Astronomy, novels are better, updated and faster!
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