"Li'er, you're thinking too much.1. My attitude towards Ye Yan and Xi Yang is not irresponsible, but I think some situations need to be changed now. What changes? Haha, it's actually very simple, it's the social scope of women."

Li Er didn't quite understand Tang Shaozhe's words, and blinked her big eyes and looked at her husband with great purity and prayed for explanation.

"Well, Li'er, let's put it this way, what do you think of a woman's social identity? Well, don't understand what social identity is? Uh, it's what role should women play in society!"

What other role can a woman play? The male leads the outside and the female leads the inside, and has been like this for thousands of years. The most important mission of a woman should be to pass on the family line, right? Li Er thought about it for a long time and only thought of this reason.

Tang Shaozhe smiled and nodded in agreement: "Yes, reproduction is indeed one of the social responsibilities of women, but it is not all. In fact, the meaning of a woman's existence is to regulate yin and yang. If there are only men in the world, then wouldn't it be a mess?"

Adjusting Yin and Yang? Li'er nodded as if she was ignorant, blinking her eyes and continuing to listen to Tang Shaozhe's foolings.

The so-called lonely yin does not grow, lonely yang does not grow, and the complementarity of yin and yang is the right way. Today's society completely limits women to the family and cuts off the interconnectedness with society. This is actually a very abnormal state.

Although men dominate this society, it cannot deny the important role of women. Women occupy half of human beings and are completely limited to internal family affairs and do not have contact with the outside world. It is easy to have many problems.

Seeing Li'er seemingly understandable, Tang Shaozhe knew that many concepts were completely fantasy for her.

"Well, give an example. Li'er, do you know why temples and nunners are called "the world of despicable and filthy"?" Tang Shaozhe remembered some of the Ming Dynasty stories he saw at the beginning, such as novels such as "Three Words and Two Pai".

When Li Er heard her husband's question, she blushed. However, at Hongxiuzhao, she was a place where dragons and snakes were mixed. Therefore, she had heard many rumors and had a little knowledge of Tang Shaozhe's topic.

"Bah, that husband is talking about all the lewd/slutty/women, not serious women!" After hearing Li'er's words, Tang Shaozhe knew that she also understood the intention of the question just now.

In ancient times, women had a very narrow social contact, especially women from some wealthy families. If there were no accidents, the social aspects that could be exposed to in their lifetime were almost limited to families and a few best friends.

However, although social rules restrict women from contacting men other than their families, they are open to monks. Not only are some nuns able to frequently contact female relatives in large families, but many monks are regular visitors to female relatives in large families.

At this time, if a nun or monk is a little ill-behaved, it is easy to seduce the female family members of wealthy families to develop lifestyle problems. The biggest reason is that the female family members are too narrow in contact with society, and are easily deceived or attracted by the fresh world.

Whether the family’s family members are involved in or possessive by monks or are seduced by nuns to have an affair with outsiders, the root cause is actually in the entire social system, not all the mistakes of these women.

However, Li Er did not agree with these views: "My husband is expelling those shameless women. If they insist on keeping their innocence, how could such an unfaithful thing happen? Not only are their natures broken, but those lustful and slutty monks are not good things either! They are not like monks, seducing serious wives to ruin the family style!"

After hearing Li Er's words, Tang Shaozhe couldn't help but smile bitterly. This completely pushed all the responsibilities to the internal factors and completely ignored the role of external factors. Although moral factors are important, the social system must also keep up.

As a country of etiquette for thousands of years, the fundamental code of Chinese civilization is that everything is based on personal moral cultivation. Although various moral rules are reasonable, how many people can really do it?

If you really regulate yourself based on this moral rule, then in the end, only saints will remain in this world.

But human nature itself is composed of countless desires and even the progress of human civilization is also desires and desires themselves at work.

All kinds of excellent tools and advanced systems are all for better serving human society. From a certain perspective, various living materials have been created for better enjoyment by mankind.

The collection of wild fruits and hunting for a living are too dependent on external conditions, so humans have learned to farm and farm to stabilize the harvest of food and ensure the source of food; it is too inconvenient to use stones as tools, so humans gradually began to use wood, bronze and iron.

When hunting, we will encounter ferocious beasts, so humans have created combat skills; single humans' lives are too fragile, so humans gather together as clan countries; all kinds of environments in nature are dangerous, so humans begin to transform the environment.

Therefore, it is obviously unreasonable to hope that everyone will become a saint in the moral code of Chinese civilization. However, it is actually difficult to use morality to suppress the dark parts of human nature without the necessary supervision.

Of course, Chinese civilization has created its own punishment and supervision system based on the moral system. Although its powerful deterrence can barely intimidate most people to abide by moral codes, it is not a long-term solution after all.

"No, my husband said it is wrong! Well, some make sense, but some of them think it is wrong." Although Li Er couldn't understand many modern vocabulary of Tang Shaozhe, she still understood what he meant after careful explanation.

Hearing the little wife's objection, Tang Shaozhe couldn't help but smile: "Oh? Then Li'er tells you what's wrong with her?"

Li'er opened her eyes wide, raised her head from Tang Shaozhe's arms very seriously, and said seriously: "Although Li'er was born in Hongxiuzhe, she also knew the four words "propriety, righteousness, integrity and shame". These are all right, and it is not wrong to abide by these rules. If others want Li'er to betray her husband, then Li'er would rather die than do it. So the husband said it wrong, and we are willing to abide by some truths, rather than being shocked by the torture of "soaking a pig cage" or "sitting on a wooden donkey".

Looking at the serious face of the little wife in her arms, Tang Shaozhe gently stroked it lovingly. The little girl quickly turned red and lowered her head, and with a "moan", she crawled into her husband's warm embrace.

"Okay, my Li'er is not wrong. There are indeed many men and women in this world who truly abide by moral laws and will not be easily confused by external things. But Li'er, you should also know that there are very few such people."

The little wife blushed by his big hand, and leaned in Tang Shaozhe's arms and replied in a low voice, but she didn't know if she really heard it clearly.

However, Tang Shaozhe also has examples: "Look, why do women keep their rituals and be commended by the court, and chastity archways become a huge honor for women to be widowed? Haha, it is because there are too few that the government will encourage and commend them with great fanfare. So this is a special case, and an abnormal state. The laws of the world are not explained by special cases, but a normal reaction."

Speaking of this, Tang Shaozhe was actually a little emotional. Although the social responsibilities between men and women are different, they should not limit women's social activities to achieve the purpose of protecting social rules.

On the contrary, expanding the normal social contact of women will eliminate many problems from the root. People with real bad character cannot be restricted by the three obediences and four virtues. People with good moral cultivation will not expand the social contact and change their minds.

As the saying goes, the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change!

In order to make the faith of women all over the world on the Ming plane, Tang Shaozhe decided to change some of the wrong rules of this era.

Of course, he would not say these words to Lier. He could only tell her that it was to liberate some of the suppressed needs of women. For these great purposes, Tang Shaozhe would definitely set an example first to lead people all over the world to follow suit.

Li'er just opened her shiny glasses, looked at Tang Shaozhe with admiration, and said seriously: "What your husband is saying is definitely right, it's because I misunderstood you. Sister Ye Yan and Sister Xi Yan knew about your husband's good intentions, they would definitely be happy."

"Hahaha, since I was misunderstood, do you have to pay some price to compensate me?" After laughing, Tang Shaozhe carefully put Li'er's slender waist, leaned in the little girl's ear and whispered a few words.

I don’t know what he said, but Li Er immediately covered her little hand with her little hand and shook her head gently and said, “I don’t listen or not, my husband is so bad! I also want to bully me in those shameful postures, I’m not going to rely on you!”

"Hahaha, what's this? It's human nature to be a man's kindness, so what's wrong? Come on, let's try it first! You didn't agree last time, and you are not allowed to stop me again this time! I'm going to have that position with you..." With a big laugh, Tang Shaozhe suddenly stood up, picked up the little girl with blushing cheeks and walked towards the bedroom with big strides.

"Oh, that posture is so embarrassing, my husband! Let's not be okay? Besides... Besides... I really can't do that by myself... that..." Li Er couldn't say it for a long time without saying it.

Tang Shaozhe laughed secretly and asked deliberately: "That? What is that? What is the lady talking about?"

"Hmph, my husband is so bad! It's that...that shameful posture! Ignore you, bad husband, always bully others!"

"Hahaha, madam, don't worry. This problem is actually nothing important. Caiwei can also help you properly!" As she spoke, she hugged her little wife tightly, wishing she could hold her tightly and never let go.

Li'er's face was flushed by her husband's whispers for a long time. Now she only felt her heart beating violently, but she couldn't bear to leave her husband's warm embrace, no matter what she said.

After a few twists and struggles, Li'er just whispered in a very low voice: "Husband, it's not possible now, it's really not possible! It's still...it's still during the day, how can we do something shameful!"

"Hahaha, don't be afraid or not, Caiwei, Caiwei, come and help, your lady is missing an assistant! Oh, hahaha..."

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