"Xiaoqing, we are friends, and Yuxin is your sister. There is only one purpose in everything we do, that is, I hope you can live a good life. If you can live a good life, then we will be satisfied. The reason why Yuxin is so serious this time is because she thinks you are not doing well. Whether you are doing well is clear in your heart. Xiaoqing, I have never said that a woman must have a man be by my side to be happy, nor do I say that a person must get married to be happy, but you should not lock your own heart. If you lock your own heart, you will never be happy. You lock your own heart, so I will be in

I can never get out of it, and others will never get into it. Xiaoqing, we hope that your calmness and calmness will come from the heart, not to force you to pretend to be for me and Yuxin. In this world, there are never people who can't forget, nor do you have time to be indifferent to love, nor do you have people who can't leave it. The key is your own heart, whether you are willing to forget it. Let go of your heart, accept this world calmly, and forget the past. I didn't say how you want to be with Chen Jun, I just hope that you can let go of your heart to face the world, calmly welcome other people's love for you, and calmly accept the help of your friends." Ye Lingtian said lightly.

"I once hid in a deep mountain during a mission. I was injured and almost died. Finally, I was rescued by a Taoist priest who lived in seclusion in the mountains. I stayed at the Taoist priest for a month. After experiencing too much blood, my heart could not calm down at all. The Taoist priest saw that there was too much bloody air on me. The Taoist priest asked me to meditate from morning to night every day. The Taoist priest said that all things in the world come from the heart and stop at the heart. As long as a person can let go of his heart and return to peace and harmony with nature.

Then there is nothing you can't do, and nothing you can't let go. You can also try this method. When you are fine, try meditating yourself, close your eyes, feel, feel a light in the distance, and pursue it with your heart, and keep chasing it. It's quite useful. You can really let go of everything as the Taoist priest said." Ye Lingtian continued. He did not tell Xu Xiaoqing that at that time, he had to take revenge and kill people and was stopped by the Taoist priest, so he taught him this trick.

"For so many years, every time I feel uneasy and can't let go of things, I will stay alone and feel the light with my hands. It won't take long to calm myself down and feel that there is nothing in this world that I can't let go of." Ye Lingtian smiled when he said this.

"Are you planning to let me peel my hair into a nun?" Xu Xiaoqing said with a smile.

"If you really want to peel your hair, it was peeled ten years ago, without waiting until now." Ye Lingtian also smiled.

"Okay, I will try your method. What you said makes sense. Maybe I am too serious and I can't get out of the dead end. I will forget you and try my best to forget you. But don't force me to get married again. For me, marriage has been tried and experienced in this life, and it is enough. If I want to have it, I'd better leave it to the next life. I don't want to touch it anymore in this life."

"That is your freedom, your own life and your own choice, but you have to promise me a condition. No matter what kind of life you choose, you must live a good life and make yourself happy. Think about your help to me and think about your concern for Yuxin, so don't refuse Yuxin's help to you anymore. As a friend, your rejection is precisely the greatest harm to her. Friends' help is by no means giving, but a kind of care. That's all I said, or the same thing. No matter what, I hope you will explain it clearly in person, whether it is for Yuxin or Chen Jun." Ye Lingtian finally held a beer can and touched Xu Xiaoqing and said.

"After telling you, I feel very happy and feel much more comfortable." Xu Xiaoqing said with a smile.

"Actually, there is no need to hide it from it. The person you should talk about most about these things is Yu Xin."

"Yes." Xu Xiaoqing nodded, and then said, "I used to think too much and took too much into consideration, which complicated the simple problems. When I said this to you today, my heart seemed to be much brighter. I called Yuxin to ask her to come out for a coffee. If it was early, you should send me over."

"good."

Ye Lingtian drove Xu Xiaoqing away from the so-called barbecue garden in Nanjiao Park.

"We have forgotten what I said to you today." Xu Xiaoqing sat in the car and said.

"Why should I forget? Xiaoqing, what you have to forget is the person in your heart rather than what you said today."

Xu Xiaoqing looked at Ye Lingtian in a daze, although she murmured: "What if I can't forget it?"

"As long as you want to forget, there is nothing you can't forget. Even if you can't forget it, turning it into a memory into a past is also a good thing. Just don't let yourself live in the past."

"I never thought that what you said was so philosophical."

"I have experienced life and death several times, but I actually understand everything."

"It seems that I should also experience life and death." Xu Xiaoqing nodded and said.

"Hey, hey, don't scare me, you're so terrible." Ye Lingtian was startled and looked at Xu Xiaoqing in surprise.

"Hahahaha, look at your promising prospects, don't you tell me anymore. I really decided to find a shortcoming. When you abandoned me more than ten years ago, I went to find a shortcoming. I am so old now. As for doing such boring things?" Xu Xiaoqing laughed.

"Don't use the word abandonment, refuse, refuse."

"Is there any difference?" Xu Xiaoqing asked back.

"Yes, at least I don't feel that guilty." Ye Lingtian smiled bitterly.

"You have changed."

“Where has changed?

"It's become smooth."

"This is the second time you said that today."

"Because I rarely see you once, and I can speak to you so indulge in such a state of indulgence and worry, and I won't say anything again in the future." Xu Xiaoqing said lightly.

"You are wrong, I said before. In fact, there is really no need to worry about anything. The more you worry about something, the more complicated it is. You can say whatever you should say, do whatever you should do, and don't do anything deliberately. I think Yuxin asked me to come today. This is what you and I seem to be wrong. The more you worry about it, the less open you are, right?"
Chapter completed!