The original feeling in Nantan came back bit by bit, which made Lu Weimin a little moved. In any case, Shen Zilie's attitude towards him has not changed much. Maybe some other factors have come in because of the changes in everyone's status. , but essentially it was not affected much.

Lu Weimin's heart warmed up and he scratched his head, "I really haven't considered this matter. Someone introduced me. Brother Shen, you also know that I have had one or two girlfriends, but as you said, starting a family and dating They are two different things. Dating can be about relationships, but starting a family is not just about relationships, but also other things. Especially now that I am like this, it is difficult to choose."

Shen Zilie heard Lu Weimin's inner distress and pondered for a moment: "For the people, dating and starting a family are not contradictory. The purpose of dating is to start a family. Sometimes you young people are easy to be picky, but I think you should be able to grasp the right balance. That's right, like Yue Shuangting, if there is no problem with Yan Yongshu, then Yue Shuangting is a good dating partner, but if something like this happens to Yan Yongshu, you should also know that it is not appropriate for you to continue dating her. I think Yue Shuangting herself and Her family should also know this. Marriage and family are very important, it is a critical step in your life, and you really need to be cautious on this issue."

"Brother Shen, I know, but you also know that sometimes feelings are difficult to explain. If there are no feelings involved, everything can be analyzed and judged rationally. But once there are feelings involved, your analysis and judgment will be as rational as possible. No matter how reasonable it is, it's hard to make up your mind." Lu Weimin shook his head gloomily.

Shen Zilie took a deep look at Lu Weimin. He felt that Lu Weimin was indeed troubled by this problem and seemed to have difficulty making a choice. He didn't know much about Lu Weimin's private life. Lu Weimin's words also revealed certain meanings and feelings. Those who are similar seem to have some unspeakable obstacles, and those who meet the conditions seem to have no emotional foundation. This is indeed a decision that is not easy to make.

Shen Zilie's guess was correct. It was not that Lu Weimin had not considered his personal problems. It did not mean that he had repented, but that he knew that this issue was already in front of him and could not be avoided.

He calculated and found out that he had three marriage partners in front of him: Su Yanqing, Zhen Jie, and Mu Tan.

Zhen Jie should be the most unsuitable. Not only Lu Weimin has certain psychological barriers, but Zhen Jie's inner psychological barriers are probably even greater. It is one thing for two people to have a relationship beyond the boundaries. Even privately, Luan Feng and Ming are affected. Not big, but if we talk about marriage, it will undoubtedly put both of them under huge moral pressure. Lu Weimin doesn't think Zhen Jie can handle it, and even Lu Weimin feels that Zhen Jie doesn't have it at all. Have considered this aspect.

Even Lu Weimin and Zhen Jie didn't know what the outcome of their bad relationship would be. In fact, after their relationship, both Lu Weimin and Zhen Jie consciously avoided it in an attempt to calm themselves down.

Su Yanqing wants to say that she is suitable in all aspects and has a good emotional foundation, but it is precisely this that makes Lu Weimin fear and worry the most. He has no confidence in himself. Su Yanqing is a woman who can't get rid of the sand in her eyes. Su Yanqing may be able to do all the things before marriage. Like an ostrich, he pretends not to know, but after marriage, Su Yanqing will never allow any flaws in the relationship between the two. Lu Weimin has a very deep understanding of this.

Moreover, Su Yanqing's rather tough and strong temper also determines that if something like this happens, something big may really happen. The marriage may be disintegrated, but it is very likely to fall into the most painful cold war. As someone who has been married in her previous life,

I even had an unforgettable love affair

He knows very well that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and any fault or mistake as a lover is of no concern. But once the lover becomes a couple, the slightest mistakes will be magnified. If the other party is an emotionally mysophobic woman, then what he does

What you did was simply unacceptable to the other party.

Of course Lu Weimin knows that if he can really change his mind and remain loyal, then of course there will be no big problem, but Lu Weimin knows that his nature is easy to change and hard to change. He really has no confidence in himself. He cannot have some kind of intertwined feelings for him.

The woman is able to cut off her feelings.

As for Mu Tan, to be honest, Lu Weimin has also considered it. A woman who does not have too many emotional entanglements and will be of great help to his career seems good. However, there are also many problems here. First, Mu Tan himself has no feelings about this engagement.

Not very interested. Secondly, Mu Tan doesn't seem to care about his private life now, but it's hard to say how he will behave after getting married. Thirdly, Lu Weimin himself has little interest in this engagement.

Although the Yang family would be helpful to his future career, Lu Weimin never thought that he had to rely on the Yang family to truly make his mark.

Lu Weimin knew very well that even if he married Mu Tan, the Mu family was originally a collateral bloodline of the Yang family. The reason why he fell in love with him was because he had already carved a path in his official career and laid some foundations. Otherwise,

Why would Yang Zining fall in love with him and even send a girl from the Yang family who is not bad in all aspects?

Even Cao Lang may not be raised as a direct descendant in the Yang family. It depends on his own destiny. Even if he is married to Mu Tan, so what? It may be the icing on the cake, but he is more likely to become a member of a certain group.

As a member of the Communist Party of China, one has to obey and serve this interest group. Lu Weimin is not very interested in this, and even has some resistance to it.

It should be said that none of these three people are good matches for him, but he doesn't seem to have much interest in finding his true destiny. Some words seem to be good, and the reasons are destined. He really hopes that this is the case, but now time has changed.

Don't allow yourself to procrastinate like this.

"Brother Shen, I know. Just because I know the importance of marriage, I really need to think about it seriously. I don't want a marriage to make me a mess for the rest of my life, or even affect the goals I have set for myself." Lu Weimin

Sincerely.

Shen Zilie sighed, "For the people, I don't want my failure in marriage to affect your view of marriage. After all, the vast majority of marriages are successful. You have to have confidence in yourself."

"I understand." Lu Weimin nodded, "Thank you, Brother Shen, for your concern."

The month at the end of the year is undoubtedly the busiest period for the government, and for Lu Weimin, the end of 1997 can be regarded as the busiest period since he started working.

In addition to the preparations for the first phase of the merger of Xinlushan Group, Lu Weimin is also responsible for the huge problems of the city's municipal agencies to celebrate the New Year.

Chinese New Year is not just a word, but something that requires real money and silver to be spent.

1997 was undoubtedly the most difficult year for Songzhou. The difficult economic development in recent years has caused the fiscal growth to slow down. Since 1995, the city's fiscal revenue growth has been at zero growth, and the growth in 1996 was pitiful.

0.5%, and in 1997 it was a negative growth of 8%.

Fiscal revenue has experienced negative growth, but expenditures have not decreased at all. Although the four major factories are facing a merger with the Lushan Group, the merger is not easy to take. According to the agreement reached with the Lushan Group, the city needs to bear part of the four major factories and the Lushan Group.

The debts mortgaged by its own assets and all debts guaranteed by the city's finances are enough to plunge the city's finances into abyss.

In addition to the huge black hole left by the four major textile companies, there are several other municipal companies in the city that also have a lot of debts guaranteed by the municipal finance. Most of these problems were caused when Shang Quanzhi took office as Secretary of the Songzhou Municipal Party Committee in 1995.

Shang Quanzhi tried his best to solve these remaining problems after he took office. However, the worse situation of Songzhou's economy greatly exceeded his expectations, and his idea of ​​reversing this trend was not implemented.

, on the contrary, the amount of these debts has further increased.

Several major banks in the city have made it clear that they have closed their lending doors to Songzhou municipal enterprises and Songzhou municipal finance. Until an agreement is reached on the repayment of huge loans, none of the major banks in the city have any intention of lending to Songzhou.

This is not because the major banks want to embarrass the newly appointed Tong Yunsong and Lu Weimin, but because the major banks are facing the difficult adjustment of transforming from professional banks to commercial banks. The compression of non-performing loan ratios and the assessment of superior banks have forced several major banks to

Harden your heart and unify your attitude.

After coming out of the Industrial and Commercial Bank of China, Tong Yunsong's face was as dark as a summer cloud. He didn't say a word when he got in the car, he just raised his head and closed his eyes in deep thought.

Lu Weimin did not expect to encounter such a rejection. In the past two days, he had contacted and coordinated with several major banks to solve the funding problem of the year before. In addition to the city celebrating the New Year, there were also several municipal enterprises that also needed a working capital for the New Year. However,

The attitude of several banks is more resolute than the other, and each one is tougher than the other. Without exception, they all propose to solve the previous loan repayment problem first, and then talk about other things. This also means that they have closed the door to continue lending.'

The credit union did agree to settle a few loans, but it was not enough. Several major banks closed their doors, making the situation suddenly become dangerous.

Lu Weimin got in the car and saw that Tong Yunsong's face was extremely ugly. He was helpless. Xiang Zuofeng, the president of ICBC, was the new president who had just arrived. The previous president had been transferred back to the provincial branch to take up a idle position. It was said that it was because of his work on the municipal branch.

On the issue of state-owned enterprise loans, Songzhou City was too indulgent. The newcomer had a very firm attitude, and the talks broke down in less than half an hour.
Chapter completed!