Chapter 788 The Third Question

"Of course, this kind of self-consciousness that is manifested by tension may be subconscious, and you don't notice it yourself, which is not surprising."

"You said I am a patient, then tell me where is my illness?" I admitted that every word Xin Quji said made me unable to argue, but I still don't believe that I have any psychological problems.

Xin Quji narrowed his eyes and said, "This requires you to answer my third question. I said that I will give you a reasonable diagnosis after three questions."

I took off my hat that I didn't take off even when I sat on the dining table. The air conditioning in the room seemed to lose the effect it should have. I felt that the bandage wrapped around my head had been soaked in sweat, and the stitched wounds were like salt, which hurt and paralyzed, and the muscles that implicated my face were tightened and stiff, "You ask."

"Your sister is called Yuanyuan, right? If, if, if, that is, if, that is, assumptions," Xin Quji asked, "In reality, when you were still single, you met such a girl. Her name, appearance, personality, and even her voice were exactly the same as your sister. The only difference between her and her sister is that she has no sibling relationship with you. So, when such a girl falls in love with you like your sister and pursues you, I want to know that you will still choose the girl you are now, that is, Shu Tong's cousin, Miss Cheng, will she be your girlfriend?"

I was stunned. Unexpectedly, he assumed a girl. After comparing her with Chu Yuan for a long time, he finally asked me to make a choice between "her" and Liusu!

"You have to think about it before answering," Xin Quji reminded me: "No matter what your answer is, you have no chance of changing it. I will only use your first answer as the basis... Also, remember that the premise I emphasized is 'if', 'hypothesis'. If there is really such a girl, you have to imagine it yourself and imagine the situation I assumed as reality."

Not only me, this time, even Shutong and Xiao Gege had no intention of continuing to eat. One was nervous and the other was curious, staring at me with a burning look, waiting for my answer.

Xin Quji had a fun all afternoon, but this emphasis was the unusual seriousness that made me hesitate. I felt that his emphasis must have a purpose, so I couldn't help but pay attention to his seemingly boring question. Then I found that I didn't have the imagination he expected at all...

"One is a girl who exists in the assumption, and the other is a living person in reality. I don't think it's comparable..."

Shu Tong and Xiao Gege's reactions were completely opposite. Xiao Gege's answer to me was disappointed, while Shu Tong agreed with him.

I secretly breathed a sigh of relief, but I heard Xin Quji say incisively: "The reason why you can't make comparisons is precisely because you have made comparisons, right?"

I felt a stern, "What does it mean?"

"Indeed, the people who exist in the assumption are not comparable to those living in reality because it is impossible for two people who are exactly the same and exactly similar in reality - you did not compare the "she" in the assumption with your girlfriend, but compared the "she" with your sister, right?"

The little princess looked dazed, Shu Tong looked surprised, and I was... blood-red.

This kid is so terrible! It turns out that the purpose of his question is not to see whether I will choose "she" or "sweet", but whether I can accept his "assumption"!

Xin Quji Su expressed his expression and said, "Psychology believes that the so-called emotion is an attitude experience that arises from whether objective things meet the needs. What is an attitude experience? To put it bluntly, it is our own feelings. We Chinese have a few old sayings, "Everyone has their own love" and "With the lover's eyes, Xi Shi" is actually this truth. If you like her, she is unique, but a human being is a sentimental creature, and will have different emotions for each different person or thing. For example, if you like travel, then

Climbing the Great Wall and visiting the Forbidden City may have the same appeal to you. If you like shopping, then the temptation of buying clothes and buying cosmetics is similar. But what if you add a prerequisite? For example, time is limited, you can only go to one place between the Great Wall and the Forbidden City. There is not enough money in your pocket, and you have to choose between clothes and cosmetics... In this way, there will definitely be comparisons and choices. This principle is the same in love. Even if it is friendship, family or love, there will be some subtle differences, for two differences

Women, you may love someone more deeply and love someone lightly. Even if you love them as deeply, the reason for falling in love and the way of loving them may not be the same. The reason why you like her is her pride and confidence and her gentleness and consideration for you. The reason why you like her is her pitifulness, which arouses your desire to protect and makes you want to give her gentleness and consideration - as long as you are two different people, there must be comparable in some aspects, because everyone is unique, and there is another solution to "carrots and vegetables have their own loves"

Explanation, that is, both love each other, but each has their own reasons to fall in love with it. If there is really nothing that can be compared at all, it can only be two identical and unique. The reasons for love and the degree of love are the same, so how can you make a choice? So you cannot compare the hypothetical 'she' with your girlfriend because the 'she' does not exist and does not exist, and the 'she' does not exist and does not exist, and it is precisely because you compared the 'she' with your sister. Am I right?"

What Xin Quji said seemed profound, but easy to understand, but because of his fast speaking speed, Shu Tong and Xiao Ge's minds obviously couldn't keep up. They thought and chewed hard, but their reactions were still very slow. I wish I could not understand what he was saying...

I didn't answer Xin Quji, it was actually equivalent to the default.

"The 'prerequisite' I just mentioned is the key to whether to make a choice. If there is no limit on 'must make a choice', then there is naturally no need to compare the people or things you like. Even if there are so-called 'prerequisite', people will try to deceive themselves and choose to forget, or they will simply become a existence that breaks the rules and overtakes secular ethics. This is the nature of human beings - mistakes that they think are inevitable are mostly inevitable in the development of some emotions or emotions.

," Xin Quji analyzed it accurately: "You deny the establishment of 'her' because of emotional disagreement, right? In the three laws of the multiverse, there is a saying that 'everything is three', that is, there are always three possibilities, three situations, or three forms of things. I like this statement, so I am also very fond of the number 'three'. The plot of the love brother of the Yuanyuan is already very obvious, and the evidence is conclusive, so there is no need to do any proof at all. So, what about you? Will you choose to accept her feelings, or

Reject? As a psychologist, after understanding your situation, this is what I need to figure out first. In fact, even if you are not a doctor, just a bystander and an insider, the first thing you will think about will be the result. The most curious thing is, what attitude will you use to respond to your sister's love complex? Do you also have the same feelings for your sister to you? I'm afraid you still don't know that when Shu Tong consulted me, the most worried issue was not the fate, which was no longer necessary.

Any proof of love complex is how you face a relationship like Yuanyuan. In other words, what she is worried about is what kind of ending that Yuanyuan’s love complex will eventually evolve into - brother-sister love is established or not. It is not difficult to judge this result. Whether the sibling love is established ultimately depends on the attitude of both parties. Your sister’s attitude is already very clear, and the key lies in your attitude, that is, do you also have a love complex? The answer is nothing more than three possibilities: ‘there is’, ‘no’, and ‘maybe there’.”

I am very glad that I can't see my expression, otherwise I really don't know how to face myself. My voice trembled and said, "Since you have designated me as a patient, it proves that you think I have it, right?"
Chapter completed!