[Chapter 1093] Inequality between men and women
【ps: Sorry, the students who were waiting for updates yesterday, a certain scum came back this morning. I first coded this chapter to make up for yesterday. I will take a look at it and then code today...]
After Dongfang left, the fairy called out irresponsible, complaining that the catering and hotel industry was too profitable, and shouting that her father would change his career and also open a hotel. One day, she also had a luxury and grand show addiction to the "master" to satisfy the little vanity of the little woman. However, she seemed to us that she was no different from Dongfang and was no longer a person in our world. Sang Yingjie was still driving his broken Honda. In terms of pomp, although the hardware quality was not as good as Zhen Nuo, it had an overwhelming advantage in quantity...
Zhen Nuo pursues nature, and Sang Yingjie pursues low-key, but these two may obviously not understand the true meaning of "natural" and "low-key". They are both lame and deliberate. I deeply regret that they failed to meet each other. My buddy really thinks that these two guys are really a perfect match. They are both bodyguard bosses, nanny and housekeepers. In a sense, they are all strange things, and they are also strange-looking at his mother...
Next door to Mary, do you think it’s natural and low-key. The residents of the community living in the same material world as me also think it’s natural and low-key? They even joined me as an alien? Are you deliberately not letting me live here naturally and low-key?!
I sent Dongfang and the fairy away, and happened to meet Tianyou and Qiu Meimei going downstairs to buy breakfast. As expected, these two female monsters fucked a fight last night. What surprised me was that only the little breasts + Niu Qiu Meimei were bruised and swollen. Tianyou was like nothing...
Dear... Qiu Meimei, who can force Su Zhuliu to retreat with one move, has already changed its strength. What level is Tianyou who can beat Qiu Meimei up?! Xu Heng said that she is just as humble as Sister Hu?
My buddy was curious and suddenly wanted Sister Hu to compete with Tianyou. Sister Hu had never fought seriously with me, but Lin Zhi dared to let Sister Hu protect me alone, but I think Sister Hu's strength is enough to convince the public in the city criminal police team...
Damn, what kind of world is there now? Women are so powerful, how can I, a man, feel good about it...
Passat bought it with Tianyou's identity. Tianyou temporarily pretended to be Chu Xiaohua, so things like driving certificates were not placed in the car. However, Sister Hu had a police officer certificate, so she drove the "evidence" to us to work openly. Chu Yuan would take the re-examination after two days, so she carried her laptop and went to the company with me.
Before leaving, the fairy kept reminding us to keep in touch. In fact, the subtext is to report peace in time. Not saying it thoroughly is not only a comfort to us, but also a self-comfort. I don’t want to be too pessimistic. This girl’s considerate always makes me feel very useful, but I was sitting in the car and thinking more about the words Dongfang said before leaving. It was not loud and cold, and it was not what I said to me, but Zhen Nuo.
In fact, except for the word "goodbye", Dongfang didn't say the third word to me since she got up and left. It can be seen that her mood when she went home was very complicated. She only said one sentence to Zhen Nuo. After getting on the convertible R8: Don't call me the little master, I don't like it, and no one in the family would like it...
Zhen Nuo just smiled disapprovingly, but I was concerned.
On the way, I couldn't help asking Chu Yuan what Dongfang meant. Chu Yuan shook his head and said he didn't know. Dongfang never took the initiative to mention her family affairs. Even if she was trapped, she was still vague and perfunctory...
Chu Yuan sighed with emotion: "Every family has a difficult sutra. From the words of Dongfang, you can hear that she has a bad relationship with her mother, and is more or less affected by some external reasons. In addition to the occasional mention of her mother, other elders in the family, she has never talked about it because those people don't like her very much. It seems that they have put a lot of pressure on her mother, which directly affects her mother's attitude towards her... Dongfang has always lived alone in Beitian and is unwilling to study in Paris. Maybe it is because most of her family members settled in Paris. Rather than saying that she is unwilling to study abroad, it is better to say that she is unwilling to go home."
I wondered. From Zhen Nuo's attitude towards the East and Dongfang's rejection of the "little master", it can be roughly confirmed that the "little master" has a certain connection with the "heir", and may be equated. Although Dongfang is precocious, has a deep personality, and is relatively self-centered, as a girl, he will inevitably lack some cuteness, but aren't these necessary advantages as a successor?
I made the above point of view for Dongfang Buping. Dong Xiaoye, who had watched too many prime-time bloody dramas, said, "Don't you understand? This is the traditional concept. It values boys over girls. The older generation attaches great importance to this. They believe that girls are raised for others and boys are the ones who inherit their family traditions. Especially rich families, they would rather leave their property to boys with mediocre qualifications than give it to girls with talent. The former is as long as it is not a loser, and the latter is not even able to go to a higher level."
I don't agree, "What era is now? My old man is old-fashioned enough, right? I haven't seen him favor boys over girls."
"Don't say so absolute," Dong Xiaoye said: "What you want to complain about is that your father strictly demands you, but he always prefers to spoil Yuanyuan, right? Think about it from another perspective, why is your father strictly demanding you? Isn't this just a boyish preference for girls? He thinks that men should stand up and women should be cared for by men, so he has no requirements for Yuanyuan, just asking you to take good care of Yuanyuan... Your father is not a general boyish preference for girls. I think your machismo is inherited from your father."
I was speechless, and Sister Hu smiled bitterly, "I heard from my mother that before I was born, my father still spoiled my sister very much, but after I was born, my father changed. Because he was a daughter again, no one passed on the family line for Lao Dong's family, so he didn't like me since he was a child, and even my sister didn't like me. Every time I got drunk, I scolded us for breaking the roots of Lao Dong's family. My mother blamed herself for being fine, saying that her belly was not good, and it would be great if she gave birth to a boy when she gave birth to me... Haha, Xiao Chuzi, you are a boy and you will never understand it. My mood when my parents sighed..."
I was stunned.
Although I can't understand it, I can imagine... No wonder Sister Hu's relationship with her parents is so stiff. Maybe it's not just because of her sister's affairs, but this traditional concept of favoring boys over girls is the root of everything.
Chu Yuan couldn't feel that mood, but she could feel the current mood of Sister Hu. Sitting in the back row, she leaned forward and gently held Sister Hu's shoulder with her hands. Sister Hu smiled slightly and continued, "Do you know why I especially like Yuanyuan and Xiao Dongfang?"
I intentionally ease the atmosphere, "Isn't it because of your lolita?"
"Get out, you are the loli control," Sister Hu punched me, and the tassel from behind also hit the back of my head. "Yuanyuan is very similar to me when I was a child, and Xiao Dongfang is like my sister at that time, especially when they were together, I was like seeing my sister and I used to be... My sister is lively and cheerful, but not really heartless, because she is a sister, so she has to be heartless. I have listened to her since I was a child. She hides her dissatisfaction with her parents in her heart, because she is afraid that it will affect my sister when she is exposed, so she always obeys, laughs when she is scolded, and doesn't cry when she is sad. She treats me, just like Dongfang now, they are all precocious, but they are just different in their maturity. And I treat my sister, like Yuanyuan to Dongfang, or rather, it is like Yuanyuan to you, not only 100% dependent, but also 200% trust..."
Sister Hu paused, and turned to a pun, which seemed to be said to Chu Yuan, "There is nothing wrong with trust, and there is nothing wrong with dependence, but don't rely too much. Excessive dependence may be the pressure on the dependents... My sister is very tired at that family. It is a vicious cycle. No, it can't be called a cycle. It should be said to be a chain reaction. Only blindly accumulated, she swallows her anger, and my parents will become worse. My father's temper is getting bigger and bigger, and my mother complains more and more. You may think I am too exaggerated, but to me, my sister is really like an angel flying from the sky, always protecting me in her.
Under her wings, it was snow-white, soft, and warm... But when she gave me these, she was enduring everything in the cold and darkness. Finally one day, she broke out... I never blamed her for leaving me and running away from home, because she was really tired. After she left, my father refused to admit his mistake, but he still began to reflect on himself. My mother no longer secretly shed tears behind her back. She was a little dissatisfied and dared to say it in front of my father. Although my father really lost his temper, she would still hide in the bathroom and cry, but at least she no longer felt that having two daughters for Lao Dong's family was a very evil thing..."
I wanted to tell Dong Xiaoye that when her parents talked about their sisters, they looked proud and proud, but they were afraid that she would ask me why I knew, so they still held back and didn't dare to say it. They gave up the topic and smiled and said, "I heard that Dongfang is not only like your sister, but also like me."
Chu Yuan spat and said, "Smile, who depends 100% on you and 200% on you? Do you tell me fewer lies? Wouldn't I become a fool? Besides, who depends on whom? Without me cooking and washing clothes for you, you can only make instant noodles in the pigpen, okay?"
My buddy was embarrassed, but I couldn't refute it. Before Chu Yuan moved here, I did claim to be a "noodle instant expert". The dirty clothes were also come to help me wash them every weekend, and then I went to her house to help clean the house and wash clothes...
Aunt Cheng said in surprise: "Nan Nan, have you never thought that Xiao Dongfang is very similar to you?"
"Does it look like?"
Everyone's reaction told me that I was like an idiot when I asked this...
"Dongfang is like me? I am like Dongfang?!" What a joke? Although I don't hate it, and I like Dongfang's personality very much, I am more afraid of it when I like it. Therefore, my evaluation of her personality is mostly negative. After all, being too cunning is indispensable, but the more I have it, the more I will be criticized...
Aunt Cheng blurted out: "I like Xiao Dongfang because I think she looks too much like you..."
Sister Hu also said tactfully: "She looks like my sister and like you, so you look like my sister."
Chu Yuan didn't say anything, but a blush appeared on her pink face. I suddenly realized that this girl was indifferent and autistic, never took the initiative to make friends, but she easily accepted Dongfang. There was always a reason...
If you think about it carefully, I can't deny the fact that I am also a person with a sunny and deep inside...
"I remember we were discussing the issue of favoring boys over girls. Why did it involve me and Dongfang?"
Dong Xiaoye shrugged and said, "I was talking about Xiaodongfang. The topic of preference for boys over girls is the derivative. Her family doesn't like her, probably because her mother wants to make her the heir and touches the interests of some people... My mother often said that if my sister had brought her home not a girl but a boy, my father might not have forced her to leave home. Pricing boys over girls is a traditional concept, and it would not have disappeared so simply. Men and women are all over the sky, etc. It's just a slogan, equality between men and women is just a legal recognition. How many ordinary people really recognize equality between men and women?"
"I just admit it..."
Chu Yuan interrupted me angrily and said, "In today's society, there is still a huge gap between men and women in the means of production. Most men who advocate equality between men and women are actually consciously or unconsciously advocating the rationality of men exploiting women and oppressing women. It is not advocating equality to women, but rather tactfully emphasizing the absolute advantage of men in the means of production and highlighting the absolute dominance of men in the society. This is their view, rather than their true understanding of 'equality between men and women' and their ideal worldview."
The stinky girl said something that made the three of us adults stunned. They chewed it carefully and it tasted a little bit. I was even more surprised by this. I said wonderingly: "Big boy, you know a lot..."
"You are the little brat if you don't understand such a simple truth." Chu Yuan raised his head and raised his chest, as proud as a little hen who had just laid a golden egg.
Dong Xiaoye agreed: "It's this truth. I'm a living example. Not only did I come from a tragic family who was persecuted by this concept, but my parents are also teachers and educators. From this we can see that the proposition in their mouths and the pedantic in their bones are not the same thing."
I can't argue.
Liusu didn't know whether it was intentional to liven up the atmosphere or simply feeling, so she sighed and said, "When my parents gave birth to me, I didn't think there was anything wrong with my daughter, but now they are getting more and more troubles day by day. They always complain that I am not a kid, otherwise it would be too much for us to be a man, right? How many daughters-in-law can we cheat them back? Now, it's fine, it's okay for a girl to look like a kid, but even her bust is like a kid. There is no need to think about whether she can cheat a man out of marriage and be a daughter-in-law for others... So, we should say, we should respect boys over girls, and we can't blame our parents all the time. Sometimes we are really forced out..."
All three of us were speechless. It took a while before we could laugh out loud.
This comfort is so effective, this girl is so cute...
But no matter how much I laugh, I think that the East is not loved by my family, and it may not be too direct to the traditional concept of favoring boys over girls. After all, most of her family lives abroad. Although the Western Guojian may not have no concept of favoring boys over girls,...
If the Dongfang family really favors boys over girls, how did her mother inherit the family business?
If her mother was a businessman, who would inherit her family business and why would others point fingers?
The most important thing is... Dongfang is only sixteen years old, and her mother should be in her year of fighting. Is it too early to determine her successor now?
Little master... The intuition that I don’t believe but has always been very accurate tells me that there are too many secrets hidden in these three words. For Dongfang, it is a bitterness that cannot be expressed to friends...
Chapter completed!